9 Warning Signs Your Relationship Is Headed For Collapse 12 years of being a Relationship Therapist and Clinical Sexologist and, I’ve come to realize that red flags usually appear fairly early on in a relationship that can signal eventual disaster if they’re not dealt with. For instance, most couples report that their relationship problems didn’t […]
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It Started With a Kiss
This week on the Therapia Blog we turn our focus to kissing. Kissing can be sweet, erotic, passionate, or affectionate, but no matter how you like to pucker up, you could reap some major benefits from locking lips with your partner. Often one of the complaints raised by a partner in Couple Counselling is “We […]
Divorce Debt Rises
News Out this week Divorce is costing Australia 14 billion a year. So why is it that Marriage or Couple Counselling is not adequately funded through our Private health funds? The government launched a $200 voucher system this week to a limited number of couples on a trial program for pre-marriage education. Whilst I agree […]
Stress from Status Anxiety – Will it kill your Relationship?
Stress from Status Anxiety – Will it kill your Relationship? One of the most common questions asked about counselling is; “Is it – an Art or a Science”? This week on the Therapia blog we are going to be focusing on emotional attraction and drawing on the works of two terrific anthropologists. David Brooks (The […]
It’s called a Break-up Because It’s Broken But what about the Kids!
Over and Over, research suggests that parental conflict is a strong predictor of how children will do following separation and divorce. Your ability to cooperatively co-parent without exposing your kids to ongoing conflict will provide a critical foundation as they navigate this big change in their little lives. Conversely, remaining hostile toward your ex-partner and […]
Hidden Causes of Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction is often unexpected and very distressing to the Individual and Couple. Erectile dysfunction is a common issue that many men face. For some men, erectile dysfunction follows them throughout their lives, but for others, it is an issue that crops up seemingly out of nowhere. For these men, it can be difficult to […]
The C word – Can you say it?
This week our blog comes from the talented team at the Gottman Institute. For those of you not familiar, Professor John Gottman is the world Leader in couple and relationship therapy. We’ve all been there: in the middle of a fight we know we can’t win, aware that our frustration has overwhelmed all sense of […]
Fiddling With Fidelity
We hear about cheaters on the news every day. The famous ones are known far and wide, for what they did and who they did it with. Wayne Carey, Shane Warne, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Tiger Woods, and Bill Clinton are just a few famous men in the “Cheaters Hall of Shame”. They’re certainly are not the […]
The Way a Woman Walks Reveals Her Orgasmic History
It is not uncommon for men to slyly observe attractive women as they walk down the street, especially in cities where beautiful women abound at every intersection. However, a recent study out of Belgium suggests that a woman’s walk is more than just a tempting way for her to strut her stuff. It is also […]
Relationship Is Not Easy
When inevitable crises strike, many couples wonder if divorce is the only option. In many cases, therapy, communication, and a renewed commitment are all it takes to get a couple back on track, but other times; the marriage has derailed for good. As hard as it is to face, divorce can sometimes be the only […]