In your relationship is there a spendaholic and a scrooge? Do you have different goals with regards to renting or buying a home? What about having a baby – can we afford it? Are you in control of your credit card debt? Do you ‘dirty fight’ when discussing money issues with your partner? Money has no power of its own. Surveys often show that couples fight over money more than anything else! Often the fight is not about money itself but other underlying issues. Money often gets the bill (blame) but the charge belongs elsewhere. A power imbalance and a lack of respect is often the cause. Yours, Mine, Ours Here are the top 8 money issues that couples fight about:
Discussing money is part of navigating the relationship roadmap. Where are you on the map – Honeymoon or power struggle stage? The balance of your relationship will be determined by deposits to the Love Bank. Keep the balance high. Yours, mine and ours is a compulsory conversation. If you are struggling to have this conversation then make an appointment to talk to a therapist or book in for our intensive Relationship Recharge Program.